Reflections Of An Evolutionary Psychologist. Personal Blog Of Alfredo Delgado Oliva
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
Itchy Legs After Waxing Legs
Educating
But not far away when we have to face decisions about everyday parent-child issues on which recipes are rarely effective. For example, what time should we allow to return to our child home at night on weekends. Or when you are ready to go with friends to a concert or nightclub. Can we allow him to go camping with his group to spend the weekend?
Many questions to which we often feel disoriented, as it combines the satisfaction of new needs that emerge from puberty with control measures, of which we are responsible to ensure their safety is not simple. And it is a questions parents frequently ask.
It is difficult to give a concrete answer as there will be numerous factors that must be taken into account: age, maturity level, confidence in the group, local customs, the time of year ... etc. In such cases, my recommendation is always the same, talk to the parents of some of the friends or companions of our children, and try to reach a consensual agreement. Dialogue, joint reflection and exchange of views may be helpful to address doubts and reach a decision, although it will never be the only possible, at least be based on the opinion of several parents, each contributing their values, their knowledge and experience. Moreover, it is likely that this decision affects a whole group of teenage friends more readily accepted by all. At last, after all, if everyone has to go home at 2 am, what the hell is going to make one of them alone in the streets until 3. And much will be boring going camping alone.
So my suggestion on this is clear: trying to make contact with parents of some of the friends of our children, at times we deem appropriate, meet them for coffee, authors discuss at length about these issues and try consensus that is acceptable to all. I did, and I think it worked well.
E Ducar teenagers is not a task that requires highly specialized expertise, and on most occasions, parents will be enough to throw common sense and our own experience . However, at other times we can feel somewhat disoriented and lost, and the availability of some information and some advice will be a great help. For example, knowing the changes brought on by adolescence, or know how to improve communication and resolve conflicts. You also receive some specific guidelines may positively influence our parenting skills.
But not far away when we have to face decisions about everyday parent-child issues on which recipes are rarely effective. For example, what time should we allow to return to our child home at night on weekends. Or when you are ready to go with friends to a concert or nightclub. Can we allow him to go camping with his group to spend the weekend?
Many questions to which we often feel disoriented, as it combines the satisfaction of new needs that emerge from puberty with control measures, of which we are responsible to ensure their safety is not simple. And it is a questions parents frequently ask.
It is difficult to give a concrete answer as there will be numerous factors that must be taken into account: age, maturity level, confidence in the group, local customs, the time of year ... etc. In such cases, my recommendation is always the same, talk to the parents of some of the friends or companions of our children, and try to reach a consensual agreement. Dialogue, joint reflection and exchange of views may be helpful to address doubts and reach a decision, although it will never be the only possible, at least be based on the opinion of several parents, each contributing their values, their knowledge and experience. Moreover, it is likely that this decision affects a whole group of teenage friends more readily accepted by all. At last, after all, if everyone has to go home at 2 am, what the hell is going to make one of them alone in the streets until 3. And much will be boring going camping alone.
So my suggestion on this is clear: trying to make contact with parents of some of the friends of our children, at times we deem appropriate, meet them for coffee, authors discuss at length about these issues and try consensus that is acceptable to all. I did, and I think it worked well.
Monday, May 2, 2011
How To Build A Horizontal Wood Fence
Thomas Ruff Nudes Soldiers
had long wanted to do an entry Thomas Ruff, one of the photographers that I like. But his work is so broad, varied and complex that it is difficult to make a compilation of the different series without elaborating too much, so, although late, I'll start at the beginning, and I'll show his other works on future occasions.
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| Thomas Ruff: fee 14, 1999. |
say start at the beginning because it was Nudes, inevitably, the first series that he'd hooked. He had seen some of his huge portraits in an exhibition of CAC Málaga , but what really brought me to him were these stolen images from the Internet. Washed images of sex pornography. Enigmatic and beautiful. Familiar and exotic. Crystal clear color with fuzzy edges. Dream fantasies and memories provided ...
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| Thomas Ruff: ez 14, 1999. |
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| Thomas Ruff: love 12, 2000. |
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| Thomas Ruff:an 40, 2000. |
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| Thomsa Ruff: C 02, 2000. |
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| Thomas Ruff: op 13, 2000. |
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| Thomas Ruff: vg 02, 2000. |
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| Thomas Ruff: lk 18, 2000. |
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| Thomas Ruff: ni 20, 2000. |
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| Thomas Ruff: fj 23, 2000. |
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| Thomas Ruff: hm 02, 2000. |
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| Thomas Ruff: gec 03, 2000. |
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| Thomas Ruff: ru 05, 2000. |
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| Thomas Ruff: lac 15, 2000. |
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| Thomas Ruff: fe 16, 2000. |
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| Thomas Ruff: er 21, 2000. |
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| Thomas Ruff: ji 01, 2000. |
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| Thomas Ruff: go 21, 2000. |
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| Thomas Ruff: pf 07, 2001. |
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| Thomas Ruff: ben 04, 2001. |
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| Thomas Ruff: alo 04, 2001. |
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| Thomas Ruff: fn 06, 2001. |
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| Thomas Ruff: bd 07, 2001. |
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| Thomas Ruff: bc 15, 2002. |
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| Thomas Ruff: Lib 02, 2002. |
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| Thomas Ruff: vol 18, 2002. |
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| Thomas Ruff: vt 04, 2003. |
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| Thomas Ruff: bb03, 2004. |
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| Thomas Ruff: rd02, 2004. |
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| Thomas Ruff: Wine 05, 2005. |
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| Thomas Ruff: Take 02, 2006. |
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| Thomas Ruff: ru 10, 2010. |
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| Thomas Ruff: tu 02, 2010. |
"Photography has been used for all sorts of reasons over the last 150 years. Nearly all the photographs that we are no longer true, with the authenticity of a reality manipulated previously agreed. You have to know the conditions in which they took a picture to understand it, simply because the camera is facing what is in front. "
( Thomas Ruff)
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