L CEREC you happy children need support and affection from their mothers and fathers, there's no doubt, but this is not the only ingredient of a good parental rearing style. It is also necessary to specify, set boundaries, say no ....
However, increasingly more often will find yourself overly permissive and overprotective parents. It is parents who from early childhood have created an environment totally free of obstacles and tolerated most of the whims of their children, either because they believe it is important to avoid frustration or because they have found it more convenient to keep the overprotective. This style can lead parents to think who have brought their children well awarding them all kinds of complicated situations and solve their problems, and have not taken into account the importance of learning from mistakes, experience frustration, delay gratification, etc.
However, the consequences of overprotective style can be quite negative, since these guys and girls have not had the opportunity to develop an adequate tolerance for frustration, and they were very angry in all situations where reality does not meets your wishes, because they have not learned to find a balance between their own needs and those of others. Nor will feel able to solve by themselves problems and difficult situations they might encounter, so it will be overwhelmed and need support from others to solve. There are many tasks that boys and girls will face over the years, and his parents will always be at your side to help them. It is expected that these children are extremely vulnerable overprotected, immature and capricious, and end bullying and emotional control their parents.
How I can work with my teen?
Leave solve their own problems. Are you going to spend your entire life sacándole up the pieces?. Leave
learn from their mistakes. Mistakes can be a great opportunity to mature. Leave
experience some frustration. Gradually it will become more resistant and will not surrender to the difficult situations.
Stop always let him get away with it. Do not give in to all their whims and demands.
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